Question:"My partners penis is not so big maybe 4 inches at most and we seem to not have success at knowing if he is in me or not.
How can I know if he is in me?
How can I help him get in me?
And I can’t feel anything when he tries or thinks he is in me.
I don’t know if position will make a difference, or if my bum is too fat and but the time he gets past that he can’t get in,( sorry I'm not trying to be funny eve3n though I know this is). Or if he can wear a strap on. Or how I could broach the subject of penis pump extenders to make it a bit longer without offending him. What do you suggest for enjoyment and success with penetration in a variety of positions as so far it’s just not happening. I've found only with partners with exceptionally large penis that I enjoyed and could feel the thrusting and the penetration, but I don’t want to miss out with a good partner who is not well endowed.
Please help."
I don’t believe that the length of your boyfriend’s penis is the problem. The girth is the real obstacle in the way of a pleasurable sexual experience. Scientist have proven that even a 2.5 inch dick can make a woman orgasm. There are lots of nerve endings in the front of the vagina. Especially in the Grafenberg spot also known as the G spot. Also the clit sits just on top of your pussy, and it ain’t rocket science to stimulate it. This even truer for small dicks that can take the G spot head on. So basically any man can give you carnal pleasures beyond the ones that you have already received.
Let’s get back to the girth of the penis. If you and your partner don’t know if the penis is inserted or not into the vagina then your boyfriend might have a skinny dick. Or maybe your vagina got over stretched by past sexual experiences or natural birth. The latter one is a better cause of vaginal looseness. Basically the muscles that kept your vagina tight got loose and don’t squeeze the dick as they used to. But thank God there is a remedy. If not millions of women that have experienced natural birth wouldn’t be able to feel sexually stimulated with the same fiery intensity as before birth. And the secret remedy are Kegel exercises. They are great for strengthening your pelvic muscles, giving you more control over them. And the best part of Kegel exercises is the fact that you can do them anywhere. You can be in crowded place and nobody will notice. All you have to do is to contract your pelvic muscles and then relax them. Contract them again and then relax them again. If you are more of an athlete you can even use special weights to exercise your pubic muscles. The pubococcygeus muscle, also called the PC muscle, is generally in bad shape. He isn’t submitted to high amounts effort during the day, so any form of exercise will show phenomenal results in short time. If you will master the control over you pubic muscles then your sex life will be transformed into a wild sensorial experience, and your lover will be ravaged by you like never before.
Another thing you could do is sex educating your lover. Show him what you like, how you like it. Tell him what feels good and what feels fantastic. Teach him how to eat your pussy just the way you like it. Teach him how to finger you the right way. Explore all the sex positions and pick the ones that feel the best. I would really recommend the sex position in which the woman has her head between her legs, laying on her back, and the man is on top. This sex position makes the penis go deeper into the vagina. Most women feel uncomfortable and pain because of the deep thrusts that this position make possible. And the most important thing is to light the fire of passion and fuel it to burn hotter than the sun. There can’t be bad sex when there is a blaze of fiery passion between the lovers.
You should also take a brief incursion into the realm of anal sex. If your lover has a smaller dick then anal sex should be more pleasurable and easy with him. Just pick a good lube and have fun. There are lots of sublime pleasures that anal sex can offer you. Also reaching orgasms from anal sex is possible and extremely pleasurable. If you find out that anal sex is to your fancy then you can incorporate it into your regular sex life. And when it comes to anal sex there are more than one ways to spice up your sex life. There are toys and positions and lots of pleasurable exploration to be had.
When it comes to telling a man that his dick doesn’t have the right size tact is a must. Serious psychological scars may ensue such a talk. Many men are very self conscious when it comes to their dick size. If your man is one of them then you should avoid the small dick talk in a direct manner, and warm him gently to the subject in time. But if you think that your man can handle it let him have it, but even so please use gently words. Even so the talk won’t have a fabulous outcome because there isn’t any miracle cure for enlarging penises. Most of what is on the web are scams and the only real method of enlarging a penis is the surgical knife. It is a painful operation that isn’t really beneficial except in rare occasions. Basically your man has to learn how to work with his dick, and make you cum as often and as hard as you wish. A very attainable goal if he is willing to put in the effort of developing his sexual skills set.
So if you love your partner and if he is a deserving lover you should be able to overcome any obstacle, especially the small penis. There are lots of sexual pleasurable experiences to be had alongside you sexy lover. Just use your imagination and start from the ideas and suggestions from above. And remember: sex should always be fun and pleasurable.
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