Question: "hi, i have a problem / when i start doing sex . i become maniac or evil. i put hands means (fisting)in holes. my partner stop to do that. but that time i get more energy. it 's really painfull for my partner.i don't want to do this type of sex but at the sex time i forget all this things."
Well I believe that you have a problem that may be a blessing in disguise. If you could focus all that energy and sexual desire from the hands to the tip of your dick you would be a sex god in bed. And the best part is that your lover won't scream STOP but it stead will yell DON'T STOP, KEEP ON GOING. And she will want more and more because it is oh so good making love to you.
But how can I achieve that, you might be wondering. Well there are many ways but I will give you the simplest and most effective one that I know of. It will require some practice and a willingness form your partner to help you out and keep you on the right path. But I have a sneaky feeling that she will be more than willing to help you out. Especially when she has only to gain sexual pleasure and ecstasy. Ok so what you have to do is the following: when you start having sex with your lover take it slow. Track the feeling and sensations in your body. When you start feeling the fisting urge in your hands for your hands shift all that desire towards your dick. Take all that desire and craving and channel it towards your dick. Make it so that your dick is the one that that feels the urge to explore all the sweet holes of your lover.
It will take some time and patience from the both of you. Also if you find you cannot control your fisting urge stop what you are doing so you can regain control. Take it easy and have fun. This is a great opportunity to explore your entire sexuality and that of your lover. Enrich your sexual life. And the best part of all this conscious control and redirection of your sexual energy and desire form the hands towards the dick is that it will become an unconscious habit. After a while your body will understand what it has to do and do it automatically. It will get on self pilot and your sex life will sky rocket.
Now you might take some time and figure out other areas of your life where you could use this technique to your advantage. Or how can you use it to improve some other aspect of your sex life. I would be really interested in hearing new and exciting possibilities that you have explored and the results that you have gotten.
Have a great sex life.
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