Question: “I'm happily married and love my hubby dearly, but find myself fantasizing about having sex with other guys from time to time. I would really like to be able to indulge in sex with other attractive males without any strings attached or psychological involvement other than friendship. My hubby has asked mr if I have ever desired to have just physical fun and sex with other guys and I have told him I do fantasize about it some. It seems to turn him on and make him hard and lusty when we talk about it, but I do not want to push anything that will disrupt our marriage. Is there a way of approaching this and allowing it to take place while still preserving our marriage? It does excite both of us to talk about this especially while we're fucking!”
Well as stated in the previous articles fantasizing is a great way to explore all the possible riches of your sex life. The fact that you are able to talk about having sex with a stranger while fucking with your lover is the first step in fulfilling your sexual desire. It means that you as a couple can communicate about it.
What I would recommend is taking a step further. Talk to your husband and tell him that you have a wet fantasy. And you would like to bring it to life as much as possible. Explain to him that you would like him to play a role. You could meet at a trendy bar and pretend that you don’t know each other. Then he or you would use the seduction power to fuel a hot sex night. Seduce him or let him seduce you. Pretend it is just a one night stand. Get into the character and have fun. And you and your lover must do whatever is necessary to not break the illusion. So don’t get out of character, play your part and make sure your lover does the same. For this to happen you and you lover must agree not to bicker about what you might say during the erotic seduction and hot fucking that will ensue it.
If the fantasy play works out to its full potential and you still are unsatisfied with the result then you can express your desire to take it further. That way who knows maybe you will get your whishes fulfilled. But I would strongly recommend first trying to fulfill you sexual desire to have sex with a stranger thru acting and fantasizing. If it doesn’t work then maybe you should talk to your husband about taking some time to explore the possibilities that an open relationship can bring.
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