Hi, my name is Sam. And I love orgies.
I’d be lying if I said I didn’t. It’s one of those things that many people don’t get to do – but boy if you had the chance I’m sure you’d do it as often as your libido would allow you to. As my first time to post here I’d thought I’d go all out and talk about one of the most delicious things in the world – so an orgy it is, as there is nothing more beautiful than being surrounded by a plethora – and I mean a plethora – of cocks and pussies.
I’m fortunate enough to have found friends who are open to exploring this with me. I’ve always thought of myself as a liberated woman, but when I’m in the middle of an orgy I even get surprised at times at what I can do, and how far I’m willing to go to achieve that shattering orgasm.
The number one rule of orgies – if there is such a thing - is to leave your inhibitions at the door. The second rule is that you are responsible for your own good time. After that, nothing really follows. I guess the responsible thing for me to do now is to advise you to always use protection, because even if you know all the people that you’re fucking, it doesn’t guarantee that you’ll be STD-free come morning. Even if you tell yourself that this might just be a one-time thing, it might eventually come back to bite you in the ass. So to be safe, use a condom. But if you don’t want to, hey, that’s your choice, too.
There are different kinds of orgies, and based from my own history, I’ve been to several of these, at times as a participant, at times just as a spectator, just to get off. You’re probably most aware of heterosexual orgies, where a group of men and women are involved. Of course, there are homosexual orgies, where a group of lesbians or gay men get together and have the most fabulous sex ever. In my next life I would like to be reincarnated as a gay man, but we shall save that for another topic. And then there is the mixed orgy, where everyone goes at each other - guy on girl, girl on girl, and guy on guy – all at the same time.
Some orgies are borne out circumstances wherein people are at party, and they get too drunk and too horny. And then things just happen. Some parties are designed to get everybody drunk and horny and stoned (at times). A body is a body, after all. But - there are also clubs and private events that hold orgies. If you’re feeling a little adventurous, you can scout your area for gatherings like these. Most don’t advertise such event, but if you know where to look, I’m sure you’ll find some. There are more highly exclusive parties where you can only get in if you know somebody, and there’s even a pre-registration involved. So you see – it’s not as taboo as you think. I’ve come to believe that we’re way past taboo at this day and age anyway.
There are some orgies that have a specific “theme” – this happens when several people share a certain fetish, and they get together to experience this communally. The most obvious example I can think of is a BDSM orgy, where people engage in some bondage and domination activities. The other one is a bareback orgy, usually for gay men who want to enjoy a nice, hot cock without the confines of a condom. The only thing that you have to worry about in such orgies is the group’s limitation, or should I say, the lack of it. Most BDSM activities employ a “safe word” – this is the secret code that you must know and say when you feel like you can’t handle the activity anymore and want your partners to stop. As for a bareback orgy, I would suggest that you attend one where the host has taken the time and effort to make sure that all of you are disease-free. After all, there is no use marching to your own detriment in exchange for a night of sex. Also, if drug use is involved in such parties, I would be extra careful.
Anyway – not that these don’t apply to a regular orgy – it does, too. Women might also want to get on the pill before they participate – nobody wants to deal with all the drama of getting pregnant, and what’s more, trying to find out who the father is!
Ideally an orgy is where you get to have sex with as many people as you can, and preferably all of them, if you’re a happy camper. Not that it’s a contest – but it’s group sex, for orgasm’s sake. Take as many as you can, and come as much as you can. Nowadays, though, an orgy can be an umbrella for a permutation of all other sexual activities – swinging, wife swapping, gang bangs, and threesomes to name a few. I say, not a problem. Orgies have a way of stripping you of all of your reserve, until there is nothing left but complete surrender, and that is what makes it so exciting.
The very fundamental idea of an orgy is “free love”, no matter how cliché that sounds. It was something that people enjoy back in ancient Greece, and continue to enjoy until today. I for one think it’s amazingly erotic to be in a room full of naked people, and the collective aura of each one reaching an orgasm is addicting.
But if you are in a relationship and have fantasies of being involved in an orgy – talk about this with your partner first, and see if he or she is open to the idea, too. I’ve known a lot of couples who have been in an orgy. They say it gives them an opportunity to be with other people and fulfill their sexual fantasies while still being inside this certain boundary. Plus, it excites them to no end to see their partner being pleasured by and giving pleasure to another person outside of their relationship.
My favorite kind of orgy is when the people involved are people you’ve known for a long time. You are relaxed, not the least bit embarrassed, and you are assured that you are going to be taken care of, because these are people that you see and talk to and are in your life in a regular basis. Most of all, they know you and accept you, your sexual desires and appetites, and have no qualms with it. It’s very liberating and cathartic to be with people with such open minds. Most of the people who fantasize about participating in orgies will probably never get to experience it in real life, unless they let go of their nervousness, preconceptions and worries about what other people might think. It takes a certain amount of courage, self-believe, and most importantly, self-love, to be able to explore the kinkier side of your sex life.
I once went to an orgy with a then boyfriend, and it’s one of the most eye-opening experiences for me. It gave me an opportunity to see him outside of the intimacy that we shared. Witnessing firsthand how he can attain the heights of gratification through a medium that is not me is one of the most erotic things ever – it’s even better than the time when I told him to masturbate in front of me. You see, when he was at that point where he is being kissed and sucked and fucked by two women simultaneously, he was obviously turned on. Seeing him like that made me so wet. And when he noticed me looking, at first there was this flash of guilt – until he saw how much I was enjoying it, and by then there is nothing else to do but give in completely to the heady feeling.
Later on he told me he has never been more aroused than when he was watching me watching him – that sense of complete trust, and overall feeling that I’m okay with it, and that after all this, we would still go home together – it brought our relationship to another new dimension, so to speak. We were more open about our thoughts, more frank about what we like sexually, and more willing to explore them even if it’s just the two of us.
Moreover, I feel more intact and whole in having had to experience some of my sexual fantasies with my lover present. An orgy presents you with so many chances of trying out new things – from having sex while a lot of people are watching, to being double penetrated, to getting involved with another woman – these are
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