Orgasm - To fake or not to fake, that is the question.

To fake, or not to fake: that is the question:

Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer

The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune,

Or to embrace with open arms a sea of orgasms.

Should I fake an orgasm? Now that is an old question. And the temptation is big towards the faking. Imagine that you and your lover are making exquisite love. Both of you are feeling fabulous. But you can feel the fact that your partner is reaching an orgasm and you are not ready. Or maybe you realize that your partner is giving all his best to make sure that you achieve that pinnacle of pleasure, the orgasm, but you just can’t. So you fake it. And that is the bad way to go I believe.

Why is it bad? Well not because you lie to your partner. Nope, not that, even though that is a blunder too. No, the reason is the following: by faking it you make sure that you will never be satisfied in bed by your lover. You will just have to fake it every time. And that is a shame. The orgasm is a great experience, one that never becomes boring. It is a fabulous way to brighten your day and above all it is the best way to show that you really like your lover. Men can’t really tell if a woman is having an orgasm or not. Sure there are tail tell signs, but every orgasm is different form woman to woman. And to make it even sweeter every woman has more than just one manner of having an orgasm. A woman can have a soft and lingering orgasm, or a hard and explosive orgasm, and all the variations in between. Women are truly blessed with a very pleasurable and exciting gift. And true lovers enjoy bestowing fantastic orgasms after fabulous orgasms on their lover.

Imagine all the fun that you are missing out by faking an orgasm. So start having orgasms. Well you might think that it is easier said than done. Well not really. All you have to do is speak with your lover. Explain the situation. If you are making love and you feel like you can’t reach an orgasm, tell your lover. Express yourself in a loving way, maybe even kid a little. Tell your lover that you enjoyed the experience and making love feels fabulous.  Guide your lover. Speak out and express your deepest desires. Tell him how much you like it when he X, where X is a thing that feels really good. Then give him pointers on what you like and what you sexually yearn for. Your lover will feel a rush of delight and so will you. There is nothing better than making love with the exception of making better love more fantastic. And this is a great opportunity. When you will open up, your lover will do the same and the fun erotic times can begin. Fantasies will become realities. Every day will feel like another day in an erotic paradise.

    Your lover will want to make sweet love more often. He will count the minutes till he can feel your soft skin, kiss your velvety lips and smell your unique sexy odor. You too will be more excited at the idea of feeling your lover close to you. And that is a sure way in my opinion to deepening your relationship. New doors rich with possibilities will open up to you. And all that just because you wanted to have more powerful orgasms, all the time. It seems, after all that, the road to fabulous orgasms is paved with sexy erotic benefits which will make your sex life even more exciting.