Question: “I am a woman. I've reached real orgasm with the penis only 3 times. I can reach it when my husband's hand is inside me but not with the intercourse. How can I regain my normal intercourse orgasm?”
Well the first question that you should ask yourself is: What is the difference between reaching an orgasm during normal intercourse and one with the help of your husband’s hand? What is different in the feeling, the sensation? What is your husband doing different besides the fact that he is using his hand and not his penis? Think about the differences and then find out a way of improving regular intercourse with the hot orgasmic tips that you have gathered from the hand orgasm.
The idea is that you can reach an orgasm, the only problem is that you can’t reach it during normal intercourse. The good part of this situation is the fact that you know how an orgasm feels. There are women that never had one. And that is a pity and it can be harder for them to reach their first orgasm because their brain has never taken them that way. Their neurology isn’t yet prone to orgasms. The brain loves pleasure. And if he finds a way of achieving it he will go after pleasure every time. The only thing that you have to do is not stand in the way of your brain. Show him what you want and your sexy brain will help you get it.
When you catch yourself talking shit to yourself just stop. Use the mantra “Shut the fuck up.” If you catch yourself telling yourself “I can’t reach an orgasm”, “I’m not orgasmic”, “This won’t work or it isn’t working” just shut up that voice. Replace it with something like “Oh this feels fabulous”, “I can make this feel even better” and start fantasizing. Use your brain the right way, be erotic. Think erotic thoughts. You get the idea.
You have to be able to jumpstart your desire for carnal pleasures alone. Fantasizing about different sexual activities is a great way to do so. Put some relaxing erotic music on and relax. This is a form of meditation but it feels better. This is erotic meditation. Just sit in a comfortable position, relax and let erotic images float through your brain. Step in the picture and take part in the fun. Be there. Feel everything, hear everything. Have fun fantasizing. Find out what turns you on. When you can get yourself wet at the drop of a dime your sex life won’t be the same. It will be fabulous and better than your wildest fantasies.
Use erotic meditation to be able to fully experience sex with your lover. Learn to live in the moment. Let all your inhibitions go. Dip and immerse yourself into the experience. Become erotically and sexually free and start living your sex life to the fullest.
Leave a comment