Imagine the following situation: your lover comes home and he or she is raging mad because of something or someone. Maybe an electronic device didn’t function properly or they were insulted or just the communication with a person was extremely difficult. No mater what the reason, even if it is a stupid one in your opinion, always agree to your lovers point of view. Always backup your partner in the beginning of their colorful expose and later on, when they are more calmed down, you could point out, in a subtile and funny way, the possible flows in their thinking.
This manner of approaching the situation is the best one. By acting this way you show your lover that you care about them and that you support him/her. What would be the point of arguing with your lover because something did not happen as intended or someone acted improperly, when you could be using the same time more fruitful. You could go on a romantic walk or have a romantic dinner. How about giving your lover an erotic massage to help them forget the whole incident. Better yet you could have hot erotic sex with your lover and cuddle for a long time in bed.
The idea is to make your lover feel the fact that you are on their side and that you support their actions and opinions. Why would you ever take the side of a third party, when the person with which you spend the most of your pleasant time is your lover. If they are terrible wrong about the situation that they present you could be daring and try to make them understand. But remember that everything is relative, so your personal opinion and your lovers opinions are as valid and as true as any other opinion formulated by an other person. So everybody is right in their own universe, and everybody is right to some degree about anything.
In many situations the person that is listening to their lover taking a load off their chest about something that bothered them along the day succeeds in performing a veritable magic act: they take the place of the third party and the fighting can continue. And when you start arguing all the other issues that you and your lover had solved and buried a long time ago start coming out like bullets form a machinegun, creating uncalled tension in your love life.
So be smart, backup your sexy lover and enjoy the erotic sex life.
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