Question: “I am 25yrs old. I had my sexual exp when I was 18. My problem is I will cum very fast. Let’s say when I enter a girl’s vagina: when I get the heat of it I will cum. I try to control it but it’s not working. Now a days I feel really bad it’s even affecting my relationship with my gf.”
Well there are a number of things you could do. The first one that I recommend is to just keep fucking. Even thou you just had an orgasm you can continue making love. There is no rule out there that says that you can’t continue having sex after you cum. It is just a popular myth. And I tell you. Sex after orgasm is great. For a few seconds the dick may get a little limp, but go on with thrust. It will get back up at full erectile force pretty soon. And there will be double the fun.
There is kind of a rule that emerges after you experience continuous fucking despite the orgasms. The more orgasms the man has the bigger the time gap between them. The more orgasms the woman has the quicker she can achieve another one. A sure way into satisfaction and pleasure for both sex partners. The only thing you have to worry about is: are you in shape. Can your body sustain all that pleasurable physical workout. Maybe you should go out and exercise more.
Now another thing you could do is to use thick condoms to desensitize your penis. That way you will feel less and therefore last longer. In your case you could try stacking two of them one on top of the other. Also there are on the market creams that desensitize the tip of the penis. You should go and speak with your local sex shop keeper to recommend you something. Read all the instructions and have a fun time.
The mental aspect of having sex is oh so important also. After all the brain is the largest sex organ. Basically sex takes place in the brain. So you have to work with your brain to make the sex last longer. The main mistake that men do is the fact that during sex they are all locked up in their brain. They are all in the inside, not paying attention to the outside. That is also the root cause of lack of orgasms for women. Men just don’t pay enough attention to their sex goddess that is right in front of them. Look at her. Caress her soft skin, kiss her and smell that sensual parfum. Take it all in and experience it all. Don’t be on the inside getting overwhelmed by the sensations. That is what your lover should do so she can have more orgasms. You have to stay on the outside, adoring every little pleasurable twitch and moan that your sexy lover has. Looking at her and draw pleasure from admiring the ecstasy that you are offering to her.
Be on the outside, live the moment. Focus on your entire body not only on the sensation from the tip of your dick. Feel the sensual caresses of your lover. Feel the erotic sensations that your skin receives when it touches her delicate skin. Watch how her sexy body moves and curves so erotically. Stay on the outside and live the moment. That way every sexual encounter will be different. Pretty soon you will be amazed when you hear that others complaining about boring sex. You will think to yourself “sex is never dull or boring, for me it is always exciting and sensually new”.
What I recommend you is a combination between continuing fucking despite the orgasms and experiencing everything on the outside. Getting out of your own head and into the world. And if any stupid thoughts start creeping up into your mind, whispering bullshit, just repeat the mantra “Shut the fuck up. Shut the fuck up.” And enjoy a happy sensual sex life.
You should also read How to fuck for a long time - Tips & Tricks.
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