Question: “I love giving my wife oral sex as she tastes exquisite however after she looses interest in me so I am often left frustrated unless I have had a handjob before. I have asked if she will let me cum inside her before completing the oral sex to orgasm and she is reluctant. How can I explain that I would find this intensively erotic and I’m more then willing to go ahead. I have tasted my semen after giving her a 'pearl necklace' although she did not realize and I find nothing unpleasant. Any advice most welcome – thanks”
Good for you that you like the taste of your wife. She must be really pleased by your oral repertoire. When it comes for the favor to be returned there are different paths that you can follow. The first thing you could do is just take turns. One time you satisfy her and the other time she can satisfy you. But this is not really a lustful and erotic path. There are better carnal ways to go.
You could give your lover oral pleasure but don’t take her over the edge. Don’t use your oral sex skills to give her an orgasm. Just stop before she is about to come and start making love. Pick a sex position that you like and go at it with full desire and lust. That way both of you can reach heavenly delights, maybe at the same time.
Also you could involve your lover in mutual oral sex. A hot and steaming 69 is right for a sensual experience. There are lots of pleasures to be had by the tip of the tongue. The 69 position offers a lot of pleasures and the best part is that both partners can enjoy the thrill ride. A really neat thing that happens in a 69 round of pleasure is the fact that you can drive your partner to go at the right speed by adjusting your own intensity. The more pleasure you inflict on the neurology of your sexy lover the more she will give back to you. It is a perfect pleasure exchange, oral sex in 69.
Another option is to start making love with no oral sex. Then when you feel you are about to cum just stop and start giving your erotic lover oral sex. This is a great way to tease her. When you have cooled down go back to fucking. And so on and so forth. Let the moment inspire you. There are a lot of thing that you can do playing this sexy erotic game.
The problem with making your lover cum before she satisfied you is that nobody wants to have their ecstasy moment ruined by performing another action. Just step into her shoes. You have just had a fabulous potent orgasm. And your lover starts nagging you that they didn’t get their share of ecstasy. First of all most people won’t be able to enjoy their orgasm if their partner isn’t happy with the outcome. So just be happy that you made your sexy lover cum. And know that or sure your turn will come. The moment can be further destroyed if your lover nags you to make them cum. Let your lover enjoy the moment because that is what you also like to happen. Don’t make your lover feel robed of their pleasure. If you give it to them let them have it all.
Now I want to bring to your attention another fascinating possibility. It is called multiple orgasms. Why stop to just one puny orgasm when you can achieve and offer fabulous orgasm after fantastic orgasm. For men there might be a learning curve because of the stiffness factor but for women it is much easier. And the pleasures can multiply and keep on multiplying. So after you make your lover cum with your oral sex skills continue making love to her. And let the good sensual times roll.
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