I know this is a big personal issue among all you women out there when you want to fully express yourselves with your boyfriend in bead but feel anxious about doing it. Talking “dirty” in bed or anywhere else doesn’t necessarily imply using “dirty” words or talking like a porn star. Men like to receive feedback, to feel that you are actively involved in their sex life, to observe what you like best and how you like it so that they can better please you. We like to know you’re excited because it makes us feel like good lovers. So for this reason we encourage your moans, heavier breaths, and sexy comments such as: “keep going baby”, “no, please don’t stop”, ”right there, that’s the spot, keep licking”. See, just simple phrases with no actual dirty words. And there are many more just like these. The secret is to do it naturally, and to be natural, you have to react to what we are doing, thus guiding us to better fulfilling your sexual needs, for example:” yeah, lick my nipples, and now slowly go downwards, keep kissing, slowly, keep going, right there, yeah, that’s the spot, keep licking” .Use your hands to gently maneuver his head, guiding him on the right rhythm to move, and the right spot to reach. This is a very good indicator that you truly enjoy your sex life together and that you like to actively participate in it.
For the advanced dirty talking guide go to: How to talk really dirty to your boyfriend .
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