But first, assuming you still feel embarrassed about using dirty words in front of your lover, I’ll start you up on a series of simple exercises to help you loosen up that hot nasty tongue of yours.
To begin with, you have to start using some form of erotic fowl language around him and, as stupid as this probably sounds, I have a simple yet ingenious solution. Tell him dirty jokes. Real easy to do and fun to put in practice. Just surf the net for adult humor, there are tones of material you can use form funny situations to sex jokes. All men enjoy a good dirty joke and I assure you it will be a very pleasant and welcomed gesture.
Now, after you started feeling natural about using dirty words around your lover, let’s get started on the advanced course. This implies using more hard-core language, but still in a sensual and erotic way.
For example: It’s Friday night, they just arrived home together from a party. They’re both kind of tired, a little drunk and loosened up. He barely managed to get in and close the door and she’s already all over him, kissing and touching, grabbing his ass. ”Take me to the bedroom” she says “I have some desert for you”. They go to the bedroom and start undressing each other slowly. The mood is arousing and sex is on the menu. They foreplay a couple of minutes but since they were already horny, she’s already warm and wet, and he is as hard as a rock. Tonight they’re not in the mood for love, they both want to fuck. He’s kissing her gently on the neck, breasts, stomach and slowly going lower and lower where he finally feasts on her delicious lips. Her temperature’s rising, her heart is beating, she breathes harder and harder, and moans o so sexy... like music for him. She then starts ordering him, begging for “more, more, faster, faster, oh god keep licking, yeah baby, just like that” all the time guiding him on how to please her, and it’s working oh so beautifully, she orgasm and the muscle spasms of her ecstatic body almost choke him between her legs. She then cools of a bit, and in between breaths manages to squeeze in a command: ”come here and fuck me baby”, it’s on tonight. He then slides in her, hard but firmly, sensually gazing into his lover’s eyes, still working all out for her satisfaction. In a moment of deeper pleasure she grabs him by the neck and whisper in his ear” ohhh... yeah baby, fuck me harder... please, harder! just like that, keep going... you know how I like it”. They then both finish hard like never before and it was the best and most passionate steaming hot sex ever.
This is only one scenario to illustrate how really dirty talk starts off slow, and gradually becomes more and more naughty. Still, I recommend that you use dirty talk only when you want to fuck, and not when you make passionate love together.
For the basic dirty talking guide go to: How to talk dirty to your boyfriend .
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