Based on where you are, you can create and sustain good erotic sexual tease for both yourself and your lover. Good sexual tension, created through foreplay can shorten the road to explosive orgasms. This can be achieved if you maintain your partner in a sub orgasmic excitation state through sexual teasing, sexual incitement and short pauses. You just have to learn to listen to your partner’s moans and breathing rate. When you feel it has become sensually overwhelming for them, slow down, or better yet stop for a couple of seconds. Eye contact is highly recommended while pausing, and slow erotic kissing mingled with erotic talk.
A good lover doesn’t limit his technique only to the bedroom. He starts his erotic repertoire well before reaching a suitable place to engage in sex. His tools are flirts, gazes and touches. For example a couple is on a date in a restaurant, and the erotic teasing can already begin. The food is great, the scenery is beautiful and they both feel grate. Slowly they start to think about sex. She then takes off one of her high-heels, and while gazing into his eyes starts teasingly massaging her lover with her sexy foot, slowly starting low, and gradually rising up between his legs. He holds her delicate hand, caresses it, and in the meantime gives her clues and slight sensual suggestions of what he’ll do to hear when they get home. After leaving the restaurant, they don’t stop, and make out while on their way home. They both use their hands to touch and caress each other. When they finally reach home, and close the door, he sweeps his beloved off her feet, and takes her to the bedroom, puts her down gently, and then lays on top of her, and they kiss some more. He then slowly moves downwards while continuing to teasingly kiss her, on the neck, chest, breasts, avoiding the nipples that are begging for attention by now, slowly teasing his lover. He continues downwards on the belly, on her thighs, and slowly in between them but intentionally missing her clit and continuing on the exterior of the legs, and coming back up on the interior. This time when he reaches in between her thighs, he gives her one kiss on the lips, and continues upwards, still kissing her until he reaches back to her delicious lips. All this time his hands are exploring every sexy curve of her hot body. The woman in turn is moaning with delight while she slowly but firmly strokes his fit body. She is telling him how much she wants him, both of them engaging in erotic pillow talk.
Now that both of them are naked and aroused, they can start off with oral sex, slowly at first, and gradually faster, building up arousal, and pausing from time to time, slowing down and then gradually faster again. The goal is to stop right before your partner orgasms so that you can maintain that exquisite feeling of arousal for as long as possible, until you partner feels like they can’t take it anymore, begging you for more, faster, faster, oh god, don’t stop, please don’t stop, and then climaxing in the best and most fantastic orgasm of their entire life, that is, until next time.
This is just one example, and the above exemplified principles of teasing can be used by both partners.
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