One of the most popular sexual fantasies of men is anal sex with their sexy woman. Unfortunately most women are not that pleased with the idea of a dick sticking up their tight ass. Women are doubtful that anal sex can bring any pleasure. They fear that anal sex will hurt and that reaching an orgasm is impossible under such conditions. The truth is that both men and women have lots of nerve endings in their anal region, making it possible to feel unique carnal pleasures. The only real obstacle is the acquisition of the techniques necessary to reach anal pleasure.
It is important that both partners agree to have anal sex. That way both of you are prepared for what will come. Also a lot of the psychological tension can be eliminated this way.
When it comes to anal sex foreplay is a must. And not just foreplay, but lots and lots of foreplay. Both partners have to get excited, really excited. Excited to the point of skipping anal sex and going for full frontal intercourse. A man with a limp dick is no good for anal sex. Also a woman not properly stimulated will feel pain when penetrating the anus. Now the moment the woman reaches a high level of arousal she has to concentrate on the loosening of the anal muscles. For this to happen the woman has to stand in a relaxing position. Face down with the ass slightly raised is typically a good position. The man can help her relax by stimulating the vulva and the anal area. He can use his hands or his tongue or a combination of the two. Strict hygiene is pretty much desired for this type of sexual play. An anal douche is indicated before anal sex. In the moment that the man sees that the anal muscles are relaxed he can take some lube and rub it on the anus, pressing it gently. Slowly insert a finger and use lots and lots of lube while doing so. With the other hand the man can stimulate the pussy of the women.
Never ever use the same hand for stimulating the anus and the pussy. There are different kinds of bacteria in the two places, and an exchange can lead to some unpleasant infections and health problems for the women. The same goes for the dick. Once inserted into the ass you shouldn’t inset it into the pussy. When you are done with the ass play wash off the hands and dick and then the fun can continue. After all the pussy is begging for some attention too.
When the anal muscles are completely relaxed you can insert the penis. Don’t shove it all in. Go slowly. A little in a little out. Take frequent breaks keeping the dick inside the ass so that her sexy body con get used and comfortable with the situation. When the dick is almost all in you can start moving in a more alert fashion. But still don’t overdo it. This is not a porn movie and porn movies don’t always depict the reality.
There are lots of sexual positions from which to choose. Pick the one that you are more comfortable with it. Have fun exploring the new carnal sensations. But go slow and use lots of lube. With time will come mastery and then the world of anal sex will be all yours. Just be careful not to get hurt or hurt your partner.
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