These are some great videos on how to French kiss. Although I recommend this kind of hot passionate tongue action in a more private space (or at least somewhere people don’t stare at you). Doing it in a more public place is o.k. most of the times, as long as the mood is right. The ideas is that when you kiss like that, you set the mood for sex through foreplay. Stopping mid-way is not always fun but you can still use it as delightful teasing. The other recommendation I have for both partners is for you to use your hands. You can do this in a variety of playful and erotic means.
Gentlemen, I know you like the girl you’re kissing and she knows that too. I know you’d like to touch here, and she does this too. But knowing something and accepting it are two different things. It all depends on the method you use. Don’t act like a desperate sex freak and reach for her breasts at first chance. It’s not sexy, and she might interpret it wrong and refuse you. The same might happen to you too if you were just kissing and suddenly she just lashed out to your dick. I know almost every man would enjoy it but still you’d act surprised. You wouldn’t know how to respond. Instead of fucking up this way, work your way to her breasts. Gently embrace her and hold her close. You can use one arm to play with her hair, neck, and just touching that soft velvety skin. You can use your hands and cares her back. Slowly going downwards to her back and gently grabbing her ass and then moving up again to her back. Or one hand up on her chest, slowly up in between her breasts, higher and higher and gently grab her neck or chin and kiss her again. Then move down to her breasts. It doesn’t really matter how you do it. Use your imagination. As long as you keep in mind these 2 guidelines:
1) Try not to surprise your partner by lashing out sexually. Sometimes this rule can be broken especially if the relationship has survived the test of time.
2) Start caressing her body from a less erogenous zone (such as hands, back, hair) and gradually work your way to her breast, pussy and then back again.
Ladies, you have a very important task too. Star being more active, you’re note a vegetable and your hands are useful too. Men also like the feeling of being caressed. Hold your man tight or firmly. Embrace him. Caress his back. Grab his ass. Play with his hands and legs while you talk. Move up gradually to his dick. The truth is that most thing that women like, men like also. And this is a great way to lead them on what you want them to do.
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