Question: "I'm about to enter into my first 3some with me and 2 guys. What is the best way to please everyone?" by lacountrygirl43
Group sex can be a sublime experience or the gates to relationship hell. So knowing the proper group sex rules and etiquette is a must. The first and most important rule is the following: always and at all time your primary focus should be on your partner. After all you are having group sex so that you can enrich your sex life together not to fuck another person. If you fall into the trap of ignoring your lover during the sex experience then you will have to deal with a lot of resentment. The breaking up of your relationship becomes a very real possibility. So just give the better part of your attention to your sexy lover and make sure that they are having a great time also.
But don’t forget that this is group sex and not the two of you having sex in front of an audience. The other person has to be involved into the sex action. Basically group sex is a balancing act between the different egos of the people that are involved into the sexual experience. Everybody has to have a great time by having their needs met.
Another thing to keep in mind is to not bluntly show off how much better is the third person in the sack compared to your lover. Even if the third person has all the right moves down don’t advertize it so much. Just enjoy it quietly. That way you won’t have to go thru the difficult conviction conversation in which you will try to sell your lover the idea that they are much better in bed then the other person. And for God’s sake don’t use the third person’s name when you will make love in the future. You will live to regret it a lot.
Don’t do things to the third person that you are not willing to do to your lover. That will just spark jealousy and a long difficult conversation that will have only bad outcomes for you. But you can let the third person do sexual things to you that your lover refuses to do. Maybe that way they can take some pointers and learn something. Who knows maybe later you will be pleasantly surprised.
And the final rule is to have fun and get involved in the sexual mix that group sex creates. Get in there and fulfill your desires and fantasies.
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