Question: “I need help with new ideas for phone sex with my boyfriend. Anything I can read for new phrases or suggestions on free material.”
Well I don’t believe that new phrases are going to spice up your phone sex. Nobody likes canned material and every human being can detect it pretty soon. Your lover will be more agile and spot it faster because of the intimate relationship that you have. He may not say anything and go along for the scripted ride but he won’t enjoy it as much as he could.
Just imagine how would it be if you could subjugate your lover just with your erotic talk. Taking him on a erotic thrill ride. Nothing physical, just words. But words that make his brain go wild with erotic sensations. Building the pleasurable feelings to the point of intense pleasure. And you being the sole person capable to release the sway you hold o him, letting him experience pure ecstasy. That’s a hot thought. And the best part of all of this is the fact that you will go first. Let it rain with ecstasy.
What you shouldn’t do is think too much and analyze and plot everything that you say to your lover during phone sex. You have to learn to let go. Get into the groove and let yourself lost into the moment. Your goal should be: how can I make this even hotter, more pleasurable. And by letting go and living the moment you will have incredible phone sex.
A fantastic way to do this is to start fantasizing. Pick a hot and erotic fantasy. Not a dinky puny one. But one that makes your blood boil. Start slowly, getting into the mood. Become eroticized. And from that state start the wildest erotic phone sex ever. Describe what you do in the fantasy to your lover. Get all the senses involved. Make it so that your lover feels like your lover from the fantasy. And as the erotic phone sex goes on he will start to contribute to the fantasy. He will bring new elements. Accept them, embrace them and use them to make the experience more pleasurable for both of you. The fact that you are so turned on and excited by the fantasy will in turn excite your lover and he will want to participate more. You will rock his sex life for good.
This kind of fantasizing is the same as the one that children do without the sexual connotation. Remember a time when you were playing with your toys. Being absorbed by the fantasy world that you created. Maybe you even played with a other child. And both of you shared and enriched the fantasy world that you created. Well the phone sex that I suggest you have is a game for the adults that get lost in feeling pleasure. You just loose yourself in the moment and experience the fantasy as it would be as real as possible. Now I wonder what else can you do with this kind of fantasizing. How can you enrich your sex life even more. Just a thought.
When you will succeed in putting all you inhibitions aside and going all out a new chapter in your sex life will be opened. Your lover will love you for it. You will feel pleasure like never before. There won’t be a need for canned material for phone sex when you have a fountain of ideas. Just let go and let your erotic emotions guide your tongue. And remember always have fun, and with time even more.
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